Why are some people naturally magnetic? Are you ready to make potent first impressions, release stuck energy from your entire body, and crank up your magnetic love energy?

Stress, Fear and Anxiety Block Satisfying Sex

When you experience stress, fear or anxiety, sex is usually the last thing on your mind. Work dilemmas, relationship woes, family issues and money problems can be devastating to your libido. It's hard to feel sexy when you are worried about the mortgage payment. Fear and anxiety associated with sex itself can also be problematic. Worrying about everything from STDs to unwanted pregnancy to sexual performance can dampen your sex drive and hamper your chances of having a satisfying sexual experience. Fear, anxiety and depression about aging can also affect your sex drive. Are you worried about getting older?

Stuck Energy Causes Depression

According to medical experts, depression is caused by an imbalance of brain chemicals along with other factors. Energetically speaking, the root cause of depression stems from foreign energy being stuck in your body. When foreign energy dims and overshadows your energy, you become depressed!

Do you remember being attracted to someone special in your life? You are attracted to someone because you admire something unique about them. You might think they are handsome, funny or even poised. You like how you feel around them. With every passing day, you start to adopt their energy as your own. When this happens and you don't release it back to them, your own energy becomes depressed and your relationship takes a nose dive.

Like with computers, you cannot use MAC software in a PC and vice-versa. They each require their own unique software to operate and process their functions. The same is true for people. The very vibe that attracted you to another person is the very thing that later makes you sexually non-responsive, argumentative and emotional. It can affect your attitude, your health and your libido.

Viagra Doesn't Work On Low Self-Esteem

Viagra only increases blood flow to the genital area to enhance physical sexual stimulation in women or men. It cannot affect any body image, relationship or emotional issues that impede sexual function.

Most people dislike some aspect of their bodies. Do you think you have jiggly thighs, a curved penis, small breasts, a fat belly or a hairy back? While you might not be 100% satisfied with the way you look, you have learned to live with the perceived flaw. This perception may actually create an energetic block that affects the sexual image of yourself and your ability to express yourself. The reality is that to have good feelings about sex, you have to have good feelings about your body.

Release Negative Self Talk with Grounding

Whenever you find yourself having a negative thought about your body, release it down your grounding cord, or put it inside a symbol and explode it. For example, if you're obsessing about your extra roll of belly fat, stop yourself. Throw that thought down your grounding cord or explode it inside a firecracker. Then fill yourself up with a shimmering gold sun of self-appreciation and sex appeal.

As you start to feel better about yourself and feel a little sexy - no matter what you look like - your sex drive will improve. Learn to love yourself for who you are, warts and all. Only then will you be able to have a really satisfying sex life and magnetically draw people who love and appreciate you.

Grounding Visualization for the Entire Body

To experience self-love and appreciation, release energy by grounding the entire body. Your natural magnetic energy will be stimulated, kicking you into high gear.

1. Create a grounding cord.

2. Visualize a second grounding cord from the bottom of your feet to the main grounding cord coming out from your spine.

3. Allow gravity to pull out any dark colors, white light or any colors you intuitively know are not your energy.

4. Release anything that prevents healing.

5. Ground your ankles, legs, knees, thighs, hips and abdomen. Release any energy stored in those body parts.

6. Ground your sex organs. Ask yourself, Is there anyone's energy stored there? Do you get a sense of thoughts or judgments from former teachers, lovers, partners, or friends sitting on your skin or inside these areas? Release both positive and negative energies.

Note: If someone likes the shape of your butt, their energy stays with it. Let it go! (And you thought it was because of all of the chocolate you ate! Both positive and negative energy can block your optimum energy function.)

7. Replenish your body and organs with a golden sun by putting some of your own energy back in your body.

What is Past is Past!

Don't get stuck on it; allow past energy release. It's no fun to be stuck in the past. It's no fun to be a victim. Stay present so you can let go, move on and attract the type of loving relationship you desire. You can even release the emotional charge of molestation through visualization.

Ensure a Healthy Body and Love Life

Learn to release stress, fear and anxiety to ensure a healthy body. Eat a balanced diet, drink plenty of water, sleep at least eight hours a night, exercise regularly and practice relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga. If you won't do it for your general health, do it for your sex life!

Copyright Amirah, 2006, All Rights Reserved. Reprinted here with the author's permission.
Amirah is an intuitive coach, author and teacher who works with individuals who want to make positive life changes and experience a deeper connection to self. Amirah helps her clients build confidence and self-esteem to enrich their life experience. She's the author of the e-book Get Better Love and More of It! and six CD Audio Programs: Optimize Your Life (1 & 2), 7 Secrets to Effortless Manifestation, Connect with Your Spirit Guides, Stress Buster, and Get Better Love. She offers free help through her monthly newsletter The SoulMystic Says. For more information on her work, visit her website, www.soulmystic.com.